Get Professionally matched with amazing singles. Dating with purpose.

The Setup is a safe, professional, and trusted matchmaking service. With over 20 years industry experience, we are experts in creating healthy, happy relationships for our clients. Your happy-ever-after is just a free profile away.

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discreet and safe

Swipe left forever on catfishes, ghosters, and swindlers. Unlike dating apps, we perform detailed background checks on every match we make. This means you relax, have fun, and date with peace of mind.

Personal Touch

Your dating journey is in trusted hands from the moment we meet you. Our certified matchmakers take the time to get to know you, your needs and relationship goals. Our matches rely on people, not algorithms.

Quality Matches

Get set up with singles you actually want to meet. You’ll be exclusively matched with high-caliber, commitment-minded, and successful professionals who share your same values and relationship goals.

Our Three Date Method

Our formula has been the ‘secret sauce’ to our client’s success, and we can’t wait to put it to work for you. With countless happy couples, we have combined a bit of science and decades of experience to ensure you meet the right one, right now.

Three Date Rule

our Three Date method


Our formula has been the ‘secret sauce’ to our client’s success, and we can’t wait to put it to work for you. With countless happy couples, we have combined a bit of science and decades of experience to ensure you meet the right one, right now.

Three Date Method

What to Expect. How Matchmaking Works.

Before we find your ideal match, we like to know what to look for. That’s why our certified matchmakers will take time to get to know you, your story, and relationship goals. Then, we’ll set you up with another top-knotch single who matches your needs and preferences.

No matter how attractive, approaching a stranger can be awkward. That’s why make the initial introductions for you. Then, you and your match can schedule your first date, go out, and have fun!

Think of your matchmaker like your best friend you’d call after leaving a date. We want to know how it went! We call this ‘feedback’ and it helps us to better understand your desires when selecting future matches.

The Setup Difference

We believe in the science behind lasting love. That’s why all of our matches are hand-selected based on years of scientific research and data. Our entire expert staff is trained and certified by both the Global Love Institute and The Love Doctor® herself, Dr. Terri Orbuch. We also proudly employ two Master Certified Matchmakers—more than any other company in the world.

Dating should be fun, exciting, and stress-free. Our support throughout the dating process helps our clients to sit back, relax and focus on finding true, lasting love.

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Personal Care and Attention

We will ensure that we have understood your unique needs when it comes to dating and relationships. We will help you identify your relationship values and goals so that you recognize them in others during your dating journey.

You are not alone! Our matchmakers are here for every milestone of your relationship journey. We work with you to identify qualities important to you while helping you define the type of person that is best suited for you. By following our 3-date formula, you will have all the tools to ensure you are set up successfully to enjoy the lasting relationship you desire.

Every member of our Setup team shares one common value. We are passionate about love and relationships. The company is invested in and committed to ensuring its staff is trained to the highest standard to ensure you get the best possible service in the Matchmaking industry today.

Great communication is key to ensuring you are successful in your dating journey. That’s why our feedback process is thorough but simple. We believe in authentic, transparent, and two-way communication throughout your journey.

You are amazing matchmakers! Not only are you all great at what you do, but your patience and personalities make this process so easy. My match with Erin is simply great! She’s sweet, genuine, classy, and beautiful in so many ways. I feel lucky to have met her thanks to all of you. I cannot wait to get to know her better. So far I’m thrilled with where this is going. Thank you for bringing someone in my life I wouldn’t have met on my own!

-Damon

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